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National Grandparent of the Year 2010
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Her slim, frail body shrouds a cognizant, highly spiritual being whose wisdom transcends the decades. Her soft eyes intensely focus on my questions, pausing for a brief moment to internalize what I have asked and formulate a meaningful answer. After drawing a breath her head rises, eyes meeting mine, and with a smile, she shares with me the aphorism that has carried her well in to her one hundredth year of life-“You can fight things you can change, but don’t fight what you can’t,” pausing as her chin again finds a resting place in her chest while taking in another breath, she continues the imparting of her wisdom “Be polite to others…don’t pick a fight.” |
| Her eyes beaming, Alberta recalls her past, being born
in Trinidad, Colorado in 1909, and coming to Denver at an early age. She
recalls her grammar school days like they were yesterday. Her family’s
affiliation with the University of Denver would point Alberta in the direction
of higher education and eventually her PHD in the sciences, specializing
chemistry and bacteriology. Still in awe of her presence, I asked her what type of self-reflection she has done at age one hundred, and what advice she would give those younger then her. Again with a slow and deliberate response she smiled and shared with me another valuable lesson-“accept and make the best of what comes along…you should try to see the best in everyone you meet; try not to be critical.” She attributes her philosophy of life to her youth, growing up in the Methodist faith and reflecting how that faith has shaped her outlook on life. It is no surprise since her family is responsible for establishing a training school for ministers-it is in her blood. |
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As she continues to reminisce I find an excellent opportunity
to ask her a curious question: What would be a sentinel event in your life
that altered the path you took? This time she needed not but a moment of
reflection, nor a breath, answering “Marrying my husband would have
to be the most memorable and life-changing.” She was 49 when married
in 1959. She delighted in her stories of travel with her husband and family,
especially the two sons, Robert and Donald, she inherited from her husband’s
first marriage. When recalling the boy’s youth she laughed out loud
“They (her boys) have never thrown anything at me that I haven’t
seen before.” Her smile widens as she shares her stories about her grandchildren, all four of them: Leanne, Douglass, both belonging to Robert, and Joan and Wesley, both belonging to Donald. |
| Of course her grandchildren are now in their thirties and
have children of her their own, but Alberta still embraces her memories
of her grandchildren as little and coming over to her town home in Ridgewood
Village and helping them learn how to swim. She also remembers the wonderful
croquet games held in the backyard and grandchildren running every which
way. Alberta’s most vivid memory of spending time with her grandchildren
was a surprise family trip in honor of her 25th wedding anniversary, she
and her husband whisked away the family to Great Britain for two weeks.
She stated “The grandkids were spoiled!” The interview slowly comes to an end, and Alberta, glowing as her eyes reflect deep introspective thought as she searches for the appropriate words, smiles and thanks me for this honor-“This is such an honor…thank you so much!” I am without words and think to myself what an honor it is to be in her presence and how she has made such an impact on the world around her, impacting so many lives for the better. Truly, a grandparent among grandparents!!! |
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